Sunday, April 17, 2016

Dating, Friends, Budgeting

April 15,

Left C's on Wednesday and made it to Pennsylvania at 9:30pm boon docked in the Wal Mart parking lot. Bonus was that Wal Mart now has free WiFi Used that to let people know I had made it to my destination.

Visited with a friend most of the day on Thursday. She's a farm girl and when I left I was gifted fresh eggs, homegrown sausage, and bread. Yum! Stopped at my storage locker to drop off a few things to make room in the van easier to stretch out when there isn't so much stuff in the way.

Today I faced one of my biggest fears. Using a propane stove. I am absolutely terrified of gas but I made C a promise to work to over come the fear. It took me about fifteen minutes to get enough courage to turn the knob and put a match to the burner but I did it not once but twice. Life will be a bit easier now that I can deal with a propane stove. Still terrified but that is sometimes part of being a traveler.

The local park has pavilions that have electricity which for the most part are unused at the back of the park. So I can work on my sewing, writing, and my taxes. In the front of the park not only do the pavilions have electricity there is also free WiFi so I can actually send my tax forms via the Internet and update the blog, talk to people, and promote my items for auction on Facebook.

As the profile states I had started this blog to be about dating. While the main focus changed it still will include the dating or at least connecting with women who are interested in dating.

With that said I do belong to a couple of dating sites and have talked to a couple of woman there but nothing beyond that other than they were younger than what I had listed on my profile (39-61) and after one or two conversations just wanted to cyber.

So I was kind of surprised when a gal started commenting on my posts in the group I belong to on Facebook. It took me a while to realize they were actually flirting with me. I can be slow at times. Lol I decided to message them about a comment that felt unfinished.

Come to find out they were trying to work up the courage to message me lol both of us are shy or is that guarded when it comes to opening up because we've been badly hurt?

I am enjoying the openness of our talks and the flirting although I think I suck at that part pretty bad. It is comfortable talking to her about pretty much anything. I am glad that age to me is just a state of mind and I tend to like older better lol.

We talk almost daily, which I look forward to, and we have a standing date for when I make it to a certain northern state. I can't promise anything beyond friendship at this moment but we shall see where things will go.

I'll be in PA for a while with maybe a side trip to see a friend in upper New York on the western side. I need to downsize my unit from the 10 x 10 to either a 5 x 10 or the ultimate no unit at all which would be the best for my budget.

The fur kids need to have their annual check up and shots where I will ask our awesome vet for a recommendation of a vet in AZ so I won't have to make this trek every year. Not that my friends here would mind but until I win the lottery it does impact my budget pretty hard.

Speaking of budgets if you are deciding to be come homefree you had better understand just what that will entail for your pocket book.

Gas: price of gas is not guaranteed to be the same everywhere you go. It can be higher or lower than what you budgeted for. Right now in PA it is $2.29 a gallon for regular and summer is just around the corner so it could go up higher.

A full tank for the van costs me anywhere from $40 to $60 and I get 450-550 miles per tank. So my budget is around $120 -$180 a month.

Insurance: We all need it if we are driving any sort of vehicle on the road. The cost will depend on the type of insurance you have. For the moment my insurance costs me $35 per month and that isn't full coverage. Something I am working towards.
Food: Unless you have great friends that make sure your pantry is stuffed beyond full you will have to figure out just how much you need and the cost will vary from place to place. Right now my food bill is basically milk (mostly powdered), and bread. So around $20-$40 a month.

Pet Food: Depending on the pet this can get expensive. For me it is $40 a month for ferret food and $20-$30 for cat food. Then you add in litter for the cats and potty pads for the ferrets the combined price is about $45 a month.

Vet care: unless you have a fund already set up you need to add it in as a monthly expense. Just for this month the vet will probably cost me $500 for all four fur kids unless I can get Boyd and Dood their shots at one of the local low cost rabies clinics offered monthly. Most don't have the rabies vaccination for ferrets let alone the distemper one.

Phone: I use a tracfone but am working to upgrade to straight talk. So at the moment I spend between $10-$40 a month depending on how often I am talking to people. The straight talk will give me unlimited talk, text, and data for around $45 a month.

Storage: My storage runs me $50 a month and thankfully the guy that owns the storage place is awesome as I am behind a little bit right at the moment which will be remedied when I sell some stuff on the auction site and do the weekly flea market here in PA.

Mail: Unless you have someone to pick up your mail at your home base you will either have a post office box or a mail box at the local UPS store. I have the later and it costs me $51 every three months. They will hold your mail up to three months. Which is nice.

Maintenance: Many don't remember to include this in their budget. Oil changes, tires, fluids, and other surprises can be needed on the road. I try to keep a budget of around $100 just encase of need but am working to have a savings of $1000 to be on the safe side but at the moment it is at $0 as I had to use most of that for said oil change and fluids for the van.

Mis: This covers going out to eat, a hotel room, campground fees, and any other thing you might want to do but isn't covered in the other categories.
For me this is often at $0 but am working towards having a small bit set aside.

For the most part my budget is around $540 a month but can go as high as $700 or drop to around $275 depending on the month and what I am doing.

So budget for the higher and if you don't use all of it in the month put the rest into a savings of some sort.


Safe travels,

Jo


Monday, April 11, 2016

So Many Miles Not Enough Internet PT 2

After Rocky Springs I headed North towards Meriwether Lewis Campground. The day was nasty and just got nastier as I drove. Finally had to pull over at Cypress Swamp because the rain was coming down so hard you couldn't see the road.

Nothing to make you realize just how dangerous the roads were like having a corner's van pull up next to you  and waits out the rain with the rest of you.Rain finally let up and I made it to a visitor's center where two lovely older ladies were. I was their only visitor for the day.
 
Can't tell you where it is but it is but the town where it is had a Wal Mart so I could add to my pantry a key ingredients. The rain wasn't stopping and it was getting dark  so I stopped at Jeff Busby Campground where I had been told I could at least get a signal for my phone. 
 


When I first got there it was me and one other person who had a tent set up. They were gone within a half hour. Woke up the next morning to several RVs and Trailers. But I decided to stay one extra day. 
Was told I was a true camper because I made my breakfast outside the van. LOL. 
I also walked the Little Mountain Trail it was a mile long loop. Sometimes it is the little things that make the biggest difference in a new life you never expected. 
Stopped in Alabama and ate lunch before heading to Meriwether Lewis Campground. Beautiful place.
 


Camp host Bruce was nice. The number one rule here he said was to have fun. lol. When it finally decided to stay nice I walked the trails.  If you are like me and have a knack for getting turned around or miss markers. The best thing I ever started doing was taking pictures of the trail map, interesting mainly to me landmarks. I walked from the campground to Meriwether Lewis' grave site and then walked the old trace. The first half of the hike wasn't bad other than a few flooded spots. It was when I got on the old trace trail things got my heart sped up a bit. 
 Remember I HATE bridges and this photo is deceptive as to how high it really is but it is part of the trail so I had to walk across it. Just past this there is a nice picnic area that you have to walk through to get to the next part of the trail. 

The next bit of the trail was slightly over grown but from what I could tell they had trees marked that needed to be removed for safety reason and it is still early in the year for hikers. I was the only one on the trail the whole time.  What is neat about this part of the trail is that ever so often you would be greeted by a sign that told you what a particular tree was. 
 


Great for those of us that learn visually and tactically.

I finally made it to Meriwether Lewis' grave site from the trail you see this


What you don't see is the sign that says Pioneer cemetery. Don't ask me why I didn't make the connection that where there is one grave site there should be more. Might of been the hike and the nice sunny day. But it wasn't until I saw 
 this grave marker that I realized that I was in a grave yard. lol 

on the other side of the grave yard is the Grinder House where he was found dead from a gunshot.  wound.
 

From there I hiked the old trace back to I had hoped to the campground at some point the trail didn't follow the map whether it was due to the rain or that someone had moved the markers. I did start to panic until I remembered I had my backpack which had food, water, light, and fire striker so even if I had to do a night in the woods so be it.

Once I realized that I was able to focus on the photos I had taken and found where I should be going. I still missed the turn to the campground but once I got back to that bridge I knew where I was and was able to find my way back to the campground.
 camp never looked so good. 

In all it was a nice long hike and I found a bit of myself that had been lost. Being around and in nature is very recharging.

From here I drove to Hopkinsville, KY to see C which is another chapter in my life book that probably won't make it to the blog. A girl has to keep some secrets lol. 

Jo